tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4728491993097760970.post3967718208738924826..comments2012-03-25T20:02:03.552-07:00Comments on Hearts in Heaven: If you mention my child's name I might cry, but if you don't mention it you will break my heart.lala783http://www.blogger.com/profile/03730184380317976766noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4728491993097760970.post-78689864475743645852012-03-25T20:02:03.552-07:002012-03-25T20:02:03.552-07:00We don't know one another, but I stumbled upon...We don't know one another, but I stumbled upon your blog a few months ago. Your feelings are so similar to mine...it's amazing! I continue to wonder how things are going. It's been a while since you posted. Can you give us an update? My family will be hitting our 2 yr. mark soon, too. Take care.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13560588970050752634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4728491993097760970.post-15413522252045799762011-07-09T14:34:51.732-07:002011-07-09T14:34:51.732-07:00I know you wrote this a while ago, and I know that...I know you wrote this a while ago, and I know that I don't know you but I came across your blog. While I don't completely understand where you are coming from and can only imagine the pain you must feel, I just wanted to tell you I can relate. The line where you said, "Would you find comfort if your child was taken away from you as long as you knew they were in a 'better' place now? Would that help you to relinquish any of your pain?" is something I know very well. My daughter was not taken away from me, I chose adoption for her. I know she will have a "better life," but that does not make it any less painful for myself. People act as if I have no right to mourn her because I didn't 'lose' her; I chose this. Whenever I get upset or show remorse and reach out to friends, they all but basically say to me: "why didn't you keep her, then?" I know it's different, but at the same time, similar, and there is no timeline for it. I am truly sorry for the loss of your little girl, who will always be your little girl. Don't let what anyone says or thinks bother you. How you and your husband feel about her is all that matters! Stay strong..Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04427608278914315657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4728491993097760970.post-18172678948824152692011-04-26T15:55:21.624-07:002011-04-26T15:55:21.624-07:00Huge, HUGE (((HUGS)). I totally understand and I ...Huge, HUGE (((HUGS)). I totally understand and I pray your IUI's are what do the trick (they worked for us for both pregnancies) and I also understand the failure of getting outside help to get pregnant. Not super intimate when 8 people see your business in order to get pregnant. However, it's also great to have tons of insight into your body. Praying for your take home baby!!!!Trishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04299991347968438414noreply@blogger.com